Ignoring explicit Biblical truth and orthodox Christian tradition condemning extra-marital sex, the "Rev" Bromleigh McCleneghan, a married mother of three and associate pastor for ministry with families at Union Church of Hinsdale in Illinois, declares that single Christians can have sex as long as it's "mutually pleasurable and affirming."
... I'd argue that we can be chaste — faithful — in unmarried sexual relationships if we exercise restraint: if we refrain from having sex that isn't mutually pleasurable and affirming, that doesn't respect the autonomy and sacred worth of ourselves and our partners," she explained.
McCleneghan believes it's unfair to ask single Christians who haven't been called to a life of celibacy to refrain from sexual intimacy when both men and women need sex.
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This is a perfect example of the treacherous reading into Scripture one's own version of "truth". The final waypoint for this mindset is apostasy. Such teachers should ponder the sobering meaning of James 3:1.